Looking for a FRIEND
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Please I'm posting here so you read it... I'm looking for friends- not snogs not an affair and definitely not a partner... I am so tired of people trying it on- i''m damaged goods, I'm ugly, fat ginger hair and glasses... Now please don't ask for anything other than friendship- yes it's a rant because ..... I can..... Please please don't waste your time.. it's friendship I'm after and it makes me really mad when because I'm alone I'm fair game... Over reacting yep but oh I'm mad.... Please feel free to erase this mods if it's inappropriate but I just had to put it down in black and white so I know I'm not encouraging anything apart from friendship...
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well said, i'm sure everyone understands now
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Hi QuietSam, I was saddened to read that youve been having a rough time finding some new friends. There are some lovely people on here that really are interested in nothing more than friendship. I hope you get to chat to them and that some will become great friends. I take my hat off to you for having the courage to post how you're feeling. Well done.
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Hi QuietSam, just click on the Profile page of the hounding romeo and click "block" - he is then technically unable to contact you again.
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Finally... someone said it aloud and clear. Please people remember this is a friendship site. I had enough of being flirt with, being called a babe, asking for my number in every message and so on... there are planty of dating site out there. This is not one of them lol
Thank you QuietSam for your post. |
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Oh my life. I have only been on here a week and I luckely have not had the problems you have had! I agree this is a friendship site! Please be sure that there are lots of nice people everywhere. People need time to heal and it sure sounds like you do! Sending you healing and friendship!
As said above block the idiots and just contact people who are on your wave-length and looking for friendship! Good luck hun! |
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I put in big capital letters "FEMALES ONLY". The men on here seem either unable to read or think so much of themselves they think I couldn't possibly resist them. I only wanted female friends, so far nothing. There is a classic time waster in my area who I'd love to name but probably would get kicked off.She tells terrible lies as well as being drunk at 1pm. I was also berated for telling it like it is, I put what I don't like and apparently that is not on. I think its best to say what you like and don't like, especially traits in people, so they know from the start. I am not going to continue on this site, its off putting the number of people who dont turn up or just mess you around. By the way, I'm sure you are a very nice woman.
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Oh dear!
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I have been considering deleting my profile as well coz the people I got to know on here are fake. But thankfully Im talking to a few nice people now (you know who you are lol)which was worth the wait.
All I can say is don't give up, just be careful. |
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I wish I lived oop north, you all sound lovely up there.
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I agree with you all.So far, I seem to have contacted with a few good friends but some of the people on here do tend to make suggestive and unwelcome comments which I really dislike. Easy way to sort it ---- Block them!
I am just lonely and looking for friends to chat with - I wish there were more people in my area but there don't seem to be but I am happy chatting with anyone who is genuine and just wants a friendly chat. Good luck Quiet Sam. You said it how it is. Be careful and remember, some of us ARE genuinely looking for friends and chat only x |
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Very well said Poppy12345, there are some lovely people on here and no one should delete themselves due to the inappropriate actions of a few. After all its the person that deletes themselves that looses out that way and that's a shame. Real friendships take time to develop.
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OMG!!! has no1 got the ***** to just say sod off without having these rants? It's not too difficult just to block these people.....I'm sorry to say but whatever site u go on these days you will get a few trying it on it's human nature these days..And whats wrong with being ginger may i ask? its a lovely hair colour!!! So stop putting yourself down..!
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I think rants are in order when you've been harassed like Sam and have men blatantly ignoring FEMALES ONLY.
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I must just have broad shoulders then!!!
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